Being a father is not always something that I excel at. I
certainly have my moments of frustration, and my moments of failure. However, I
also have my moments where my role as a father gives me a unique purpose and
calling from God. I am proud to be the father of Gideon and Abel, and my wife
Abby and I also have another little guy or gal on the way in November.
Stepping back and forth between the different worlds of
Uganda and America volunteering for Sweet Sleep sometimes pose some challenges
for me as a father. It is easy for me to project my own frustration with the
consumer driven world in which we live on my children. It is easy for me to get
more quickly upset with Gideon and Abel upon my return from Uganda when they
whine, fuss, or don’t listen based on the desperate needs that I witness in the
orphanages. I hope that I am better able to control my frustrations, and inner
struggles in the future, so they understand the love that I have for them, and
the desire I have for them to know how others in this world live.
My incredible wife has always understood my call to be a
father, not just to my boys, but to the fatherless as well. Her support and
encouragement are one of the things that allows me to “go,” and to attempt to
stand in the gap for these beautiful children of Uganda. My first trip to
Uganda took place just one month after Abel was born. Although it was hard to
leave my family, I felt God’s calling on my life, and I knew that I was called
to go, but without Abby’s understanding spirit it simply never would have
happened.
In a country where many fathers are abusive or simply
absent, I have found a quick bond with many of the children, and a burden to
show them fatherly love and support. As my journey with Uganda continues with
Fields of Dreams in the future, I hope and pray that God will continue to
entrust me with the task of loving, supporting and speaking truth into the
orphaned and vulnerable children of this country that I consider my second
home.
On my second trip to Uganda, I forged a special bond with a
boy by the name of Dallen at Blessed Hope Champions Academy. I am now unsure
about his whereabouts, but I continue to pray for his life, and hope that we
will be reunited on this side of heaven. Although I only spent a short week in
his presence, it is amazing the bonds that God can forge through the incredible
ministry of Sweet Sleep. I want to share with you the letters that I received
from Dallen during that week, and the important work that Sweet Sleep does in
the lives of these children.
Letter One: (Delivered by Dallen on our 3rd day
at the orphanage)
Dear Uncle Mike,
I greet you in Jesus’ name. I love you so much and
your friends. I like to be with you every day. I will be not happy when you
have to go back to your country, but I will pray for you every day. You will be
in my heart all of my life.
From, Dallen
Letter Two: (Delivered by Dallen on our 4th day
at the orphanage)
Dear Mike,
I love you so much. I have seen that you love me. I am
going to call you Daddy. You are a good daddy. I write this letter to thank you
for what you have given me. I have seen that God loves me and you love me. I am
very happy. I am now loving God because you have taught me how to love someone.
I greet you with your family and your friends. Sweet Sleep is very helpful. I
am 10 years old. I promise you – you will be in my heart and my life. I have a
sister called Vannitta. May God bless you. Good day.
Dallen
Letter Three: (Delivered by Dallen as we were loading the
bus on our last day)
Dear Daddy Mike,
I love you so much. I promise that you will be in my
heart and my life. Please write for me a letter telling me how you feel when
you are with me and write for your young boys. Thank you and thank you very
much. May God bless you.
From your loving son, Dallen
Letter Four: (Delivered by my friend Amanda after spending 3
more weeks with Blessed Hope)
Dear Daddy Mike,
I love you so much. I greet you in Jesus’ name. I am
happy because you are with your family. I wish one day we shall meet in your
country. I pray for you every day and will never forget you in my life.
How is Gideon and Abel and your wife. I thank you very much. I will miss you
even my heart is caring for you. And I wish I could bring you a present But I
have not money to come there. I am very happy because you are with your family
and they were missing you. You left your family because of me and God loves
you.
From your loving son, Dallen
So yes, I am the proud father of two incredible boys, Gideon
and Abel, and another on the way. But I am also a father to hundreds of
exceptional kids in the Pearl of Africa. I may not get to tuck them in at
night. I may not get to teach them how to ride a bike, or hit a baseball, but
they are nonetheless my children. We are called as Christians to care for the
orphan and the widow, and for me, it has honestly become the most rewarding
aspect of my faith.
Happy father’s day to my incredible father, whom loved me
enough, that he traveled with me to Uganda last year to understand my passion
for this country and its people. I am the youngest of five children, and my
father has been a great example of what it means to care, support and provide
for his children. And because of this trip, my father now has another child,
she may not join around the table at Christmas, but Sarah, a girl in Uganda,
has found a place in my father’s heart.
I pray that one day Gideon and Abel will learn what it means
to be a father to the fatherless. I pray that their lives will not be lived for
themselves, but for the people in this world that need their love, gifts, and
their concern. I pray that Dallen, and William, and Livingstone, and Eddie, and
Joseph, and Amos, and all the boys and girls in Uganda would find hope in the
fact that there is a Father in heaven that will never hurt nor abandon them. I
pray that they will know with certainty that they are loved, and that they play
an important role in our family of faith.
Mike Warneke <> June 21, 2012